Lately, this week especially, I heard so many couple's quarrel (from the gf's side, that is) .Here are some quotes that I've read/heard this week about their bfs:
"I was so mad with him, that I deleted him from my friendster"
"why must there be couples in this world? if there's no couple, then there wont be any broken hopes, or broken hearts."
"u're knocking on my window. i acted like i didnt hear it. it hurts inside. thanx for ruining my nite."
"I dunno..I was so pissed off with him, I decided not to call him. Don't care lah"
tskk...tsk.. cian cian.. well, I have no say about this whole quarrel thing, cause it has be AGES since I've been thru one (or have I? haha). So, thats how relationship is.. you fell in love, then you BOTH (gotta stress this point) have to be strong to face any obstacle that comes in your relationship. If you are able to go through all the ups, and especially the downs with your partner, insyallah the longer you both can last...
Sometimes, people are just in love with the idea of "in love". They don't realised that there's more to life than just love alone. The "Personality connectedness" is fairly important in any relationship. In time, there will always be struggles, challenges, bitter & pain, and thats the real deal of a relationship. Sometimes, you dont have to be total opposites of each other, or exactly the same like your partner.. but the main thing is that you just need this "ngam-ness" with each other, then things can work...plus some creativity here & there, then it can definately spice up your relationship.( Talking like a true expert..not!)
It's funny that I'm talking about this, as I am not undergoing any relationship problems at the moment. I guess for me, I haven't met the guy who has the common "ngam-ness" with me. But, I'm not complainig. I'm just a lil worried at times, but not complaining. (I can relate myself to Bridget Jones Diary (Part 1) , but not being as desperate as her! ) People say that I'm too choosey..but, how can I be choosey when there not even any candidate in the first place? whatever..=p I just wanna enjoy this single life while I can...=)
As for these people who "complain" about these quarrels, well.. proudly enough they are "back in good terms" already. Good on you girls! ;) I wish all the best that all of you will be happy with your loved one always..
ps: maybe this entry doesn't make sense..I dunno.. just wanted "let it out", you know.. aper2 jelah..=P
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